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den 22 augusti BYEBYE~~~This will be my last post here T.T
Gotta say bye bye lerh... Coz i moved to another new place lerh....
Yan Yan lorh >.< she go show her blog to me =.=""
So wanna challenge her then go change... wakakakkakakakaa evil ....
Now i DECLARE that this blog is close at 22Aug2008 12.18AM...
I haVe MOVED to ...
yiyioyy.blogspot.com
Remember to find me there orh ^^ den 15 augusti Again, SHUT UP....DUnno why... Keep asking myself...
Anyway, sometimes I just feel like yelling "SHUT UP" !!!! It seems that problems were solve... Everyone are happy...
But he just POP up a big big news... That makes all of us hate him sooooooo much.... Should say, at first we hate him just a little... Means after a dinner after a sleep... We forget what he has did... But now, he really allow us to hate him into our heart... WALAO... I cant stand why we have such a person in the college... Also cant understand why... Sienz Anyway feel like yelling SHUT UP.... The previous minute is so, the next minute it's another way... WTF... I really cant stand.... You might be the god but not everyone can.... and we just no need to see your face and walk sia.... We have our own life to go on... We have our rights to choose.... And really it makes us hate you sooooo much... den 5 augusti How Likable Are You? Most of us want people to like us. Life seems better that way... We seldom complain about being liked too much by too many people!
Whether or not others like us is largely up to us. It depends on what we do and how we get along with others. Many of us are not getting along with others as well as we like to pretend.
We say we want others to like us for who we are. That often means we are not doing things we ought to do and we don't intend to change, either. "Why can't they just like me the way I am?" Truth is, to be liked we mustbe likable.
Being likable is not all that hard to do. For openers, are you really interested in other people? We seldom like people who act as if they are only interested in themselves. When you meet someone, smile while you talk to them. Convey a friendly attitude. Ask about their concerns. Be understanding and considerate of their feelings.
Greet people as soon as you see them, Don't wait for them to greet you first. Call them by name. Give them the impression that you are genuinely happy to see them.
Act like you enjoy life. Look on the optimistic side of things even when you don't feel like it. Express yourself in positive ways. Don't be a whiner and complainer.
Never try to make yourself look good by putting others down. Build others up instead of criticizing them. Look for the good in people. Praise others generously, both to their face and behind their back.
Be courteous and practice good manners at all times. It takes no more time to be courteous than to be rude, and it pays much better dividends. Be patient, no matter what happens.
If you would like to increase your likability quotient, start practicing all these ideas on a regular basis. When you do, you will find it is not difficult to get other people to like you...
** Keep asking yourself... Are you likable? If you don't know, just look around. See if your friends like you or not... If most of the people keep avoiding you, then you should be asking yourself... Am I likable? ** den 2 augusti The Inability to say NOPressure often comes from realizing that you have too much to do and not enough time to do it. If you are feeling pressed for time, what can you do?
We can see some of us seem to be busy everyday... Knowing that getting into it is easy but getting out is tough =.=""
So, what cause us? The primary causes of pressure is our inability to say NO...
Saying no seems to be very difficult, almost impossible for some... It is like when your boss asked you to do something, you won't say no to him...
Suppose your boss comes by one afternoon and asks you to tackle another special project. You respond, "Yes, sir. I'll get on it right away." The boss goes away happy, believing that all is well....
What you should have said is, "wait a minute boss. I'd really love to do that, but do you realize everything I'm already doing? Which tasks do you want me to set aside in order to tackle this new assignment?" If you are really loaded up and you fail to say so, you are contributing to your own pressure =.=""
In conclusion, SPEAK UP!!! Honestly evaluate your work load and say no when necessary...
No one performs at their best when they are feeling the time pressure that comes from being over-committed...
** It's the same to us here... Not to say that I have no commitment... Just that I don't want to be over-committed...
That makes me feel so shyt... Sometimes they used to say that we have no choice... We cant say no... We should have sacrifice more...
But don't you know that the RIGHT to say NO is on our side.... If I really say NO, you can't blame on me...
This is because I don't want to have too much pressure... And also, why we used to fail what we have done... Or have not ever did a very best job...
Everyone of us focuses on too many assignments... And we can't say no.. That's why...
Hoping that a new semester will bring something new too >.< ** den 1 augusti A song that really fit my mood now...~~~ Have you ever loved somebody so much, it makes you cry ~~~
~~~ Have you ever needed something so bad, you can't sleep at night ~~~ ~~~ Have you ever tried to find the words, but they don't come out right ~~~ "Have You Ever by Westlife"
Seems like this song came into my ear in such a right time...
Someone said, why don't just believe that we can last for a very long time...
It's nice to believe that... When you have not get the words....
But sometime, believing hurts... Especially it don't appear like what we think of...
It's very clear... Aren't so... The words that I'm finding,it is just not right...
It's enough to be selfish... Time to stop...
But people are greedy... Once we heard that it's so and so...
It makes us think and think... And start asking for more... Demanding...
Maybe... Maybe.... Not the right person... That's why... You can't get more...
Guessing hurts... Believing hurts too... Then, what should we wish for...
Always hope... to just don't care...
ALways hope... to let go...
But the relation build up... Aren't easy...
Everytime, it's just a kind of thinking... When the mood is in no no side...
Once we meet up, or other time... Can't do it... Can't...
What to do... How... When....
A lonely night... A night where the tap water flows... I forget to close it >.<
* It's fun to play around... Genting then Bentong ^^
The French style place... Really cool man O.o ...
It's just between Bentong and Genting.. But I dunno the exact way...
Maybe you can search through net... And the place, really beautiful ^^
At Shirlene's house, we tried to plug rambutan and even mangosteen in her grandma place...
We feed so many mosquitoes as well >.<
I think they feel sooooo happy to have 5 of us there >.<
Anyway, I have HAD a pretty good holiday ^^
Hooorayyy~~~~ ^^ *
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